
This is another old story, but definitely one worth telling. One of our Burundi refugees who has been here for almost two years is still waiting for his wife to come over. He married the woman after he applied for refugee status with the UNHCR, so when his number came up for resettlement, she was still waiting for her go-ahead. Someone probably told him that he could submit an AOR (affidavit of relationship) and bring her over in just a few months. The problem is that only a few months after he arrived here, the US government, wary of increasing fraud with the affidavits, stopped accepting AORs. They're currently changing the paperwork to make the process more robust, but in the meantime, refugees can't easily bring over family members still in refugee camps.
But it gets a lot worse. His wife gave birth to a son two or three months after he left, and he's never met his child. And since he got his green card in February, he is no longer eligible to submit an AOR, even if the State Department starts taking them again soon. The other form that he could use to bring his family over has to be submitted with hundreds of dollars in fees, and there would be no travel assistance for his wife and child--they would have to pay for their airfare (which is generally more than $1,000) upfront. They would also not enter the country as refugees, but as relatives of a Legal Permanent Resident (i.e. someone with a greencard) and therefore would not be eligible for the financial assistance, medicaid, and food stamps that refugees are entitled to. So basically, it's going to be incredibly hard for him to get his family over here.
Oh, but wait, there's more! This isn't his first wife--she, along with his first two kids, died when they fled from Congo (where he had been living after fleeing Burundi many years earlier). So this is the second time he has been cast into a new country without his family. As well, since he's arrived in the US, he's been hit by a car and fell down a flight of stairs. He was laid off in November and his food stamps were canceled in December. Basically, this guy has had one of the hardest lives I can imagine. He's one of the nicest people I've ever met, and whenever you bring him bad news, he raises his right hand, index finger extended like a preacher delivering a sermon, and proclaims, "God has the power!" and smiles. His faith and patience are just totally unmatched. If someone told me I could give just one of our clients a free house, or a free car, or a vacation, or anything else, I'd give it to this guy, no question.
But it gets a lot worse. His wife gave birth to a son two or three months after he left, and he's never met his child. And since he got his green card in February, he is no longer eligible to submit an AOR, even if the State Department starts taking them again soon. The other form that he could use to bring his family over has to be submitted with hundreds of dollars in fees, and there would be no travel assistance for his wife and child--they would have to pay for their airfare (which is generally more than $1,000) upfront. They would also not enter the country as refugees, but as relatives of a Legal Permanent Resident (i.e. someone with a greencard) and therefore would not be eligible for the financial assistance, medicaid, and food stamps that refugees are entitled to. So basically, it's going to be incredibly hard for him to get his family over here.
Oh, but wait, there's more! This isn't his first wife--she, along with his first two kids, died when they fled from Congo (where he had been living after fleeing Burundi many years earlier). So this is the second time he has been cast into a new country without his family. As well, since he's arrived in the US, he's been hit by a car and fell down a flight of stairs. He was laid off in November and his food stamps were canceled in December. Basically, this guy has had one of the hardest lives I can imagine. He's one of the nicest people I've ever met, and whenever you bring him bad news, he raises his right hand, index finger extended like a preacher delivering a sermon, and proclaims, "God has the power!" and smiles. His faith and patience are just totally unmatched. If someone told me I could give just one of our clients a free house, or a free car, or a vacation, or anything else, I'd give it to this guy, no question.
His is the sort of story that makes me want to laugh and cry at the same time.


